Marriage is so much like is a living, breathing thing. Just as the body and muscles cannot get stronger without stress and challenge. You too have to fight a battle of struggles and face many obstacles within your marriage and become stronger TOGETHER...

Dear Husbands…

Isn't it amazing how easy it is for you to see FAULTS and FLAWS in your Wife, yet you see other women as being PERFECT.

You share a home with your wife, everyday you wake her, she is not always wearing makeup in your presence, by the time you get home and look at her she's tired, you see her at her lowest and dirtiest. You know all of her flaws and her weaknesses.

You don't live with that lady you are so lusting after and wishing she was your wife, you don't go to bed and wake up beside her. You don't get to see her without makeup or when her hair is messy and you definitely have never seen her at her worst.

Your wife cannot be Fictitious for you, she has no reason to pretend that she is fake or represent something that is not real. What you see with your wife is the reality of marriage and parenting. On the other hand, that lady has no real reason to be genuine towards you, she will simulate and portray what she knows will intrigue you. She will act well cultivated, behave courteously  just so that you will find her desirable. You will be labeled some ungodly names if you allow that to fool you..

Don't you dare try to equate her with your wife, because she too has her own imperfections and flaws, she has attitude issues too, she gets angry too, but you won't see all this about her.

Do not even continue to covet the thought that you could be married to her instead of your wife.

Respect Your Wife.

She has stood by your side through thick and thin. She has been through every struggle with you, She sacrificed her body and given you kids, 

She has hustled and bustled with you. Love her strengths and her weaknesses.

Her body tells a story, her mind is broken, her weakness is because she has been strong for so long so you better Love those stretch marks and love her pendulous breasts. Kiss that not so flat tummy, appreciate the strength of your wife and Love her, Flaws and all…

Together you will continue to grow.

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